Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Robert Oxtoby with the following comment:
I'm descended from the Oxtoby's on my paternal grandmother's side. I've just made a request for a photo of another Oxtoby headstone - I believe there is more than one in this graveyard.Many thanks. I'm in Australia otherwise I'd love to go here myself, but appreciate you having taken a photo for people like myself.Best wishes.